6/17/12

3rd Secret. Relationship Battles.


           When two people move in together, couples tend to discover pretty much the same thing no matter who they are – that they are two different people and living together is harder than anyone ever told them. Love conquers a lot of things, but it is no match for living day-in and day-out with another human being (especially if you’ve spent years on your own).
           Prepare yourself for this challenge by choosing what arguments you want to turn into a full blown battle. For instance, do you really want to start a fight over the toothpaste cap or how clean the shower is? Or would you rather reserve your energy for the discussions over finances, kids, and career paths (you know, the things that might really matter to a person). Too many couples fight and bicker over the dumbest things, especially when put into context of issues of true importance.

6/12/12

2nd Secret of LTR. Communicate.


           Relationships live and die not by the sword, but by the amount of discussion. If two people can’t find a way to openly and honestly communicate their needs and feelings to one another, the relationship doesn't stand much of a chance long-term. Couples must find a way to communicate regularly, openly, and directly.
           This doesn’t mean waiting for an argument to tell your significant other how much he bothers you with his throwing his clothes on the floor instead of the hamper. It means telling him when you feel the need to, and to do so in a manner that is respectful but assertive.

1st Secret of LTR. Compromise.

         Relationships are about not only taking, but also giving. If you find yourself not giving very much, or feeling resentful of how much you give and how little you receive back, you may be in an unequal relationship where one side is taking more than they are giving.
          For instance, couples sometimes mistakenly believe that “love” will help them deal with any issue that comes up, and that if the other person truly loved you, they would just do as you ask. But people are independent with their own unique needs and personalities. Just because we found someone we want to spend our lives with doesn’t mean we give up our own identity in the process.

6/11/12

Secrets to a Successful Long-Term Relationship




There have been a thousand or more articles written about how to have a successful long-term relationship or marriage, but none that seem to capture some of the core ingredients.

It’s important to dispel a common relationship myth — relationships are easy. That is simply not true. The grass always looks greener in other people’s lives, because few people share the truth of the amount of work that goes into relationships (hence why 50% of marriages end in divorce). Relationships — even the best relationships in the world — require constant attention, nurturing, and work. If you can understand and accept the need for constant attention and work in your relationship, you’re started in the right direction.

Long-distance relationship


Almost a month after her boyfriend, Billy Crawford flew to France to revive his music career in Europe, Mundo Man ay Magunaw lead star Nikki Gil shared that their relationship remains strong despite the “long distance.”

According to Nikki, she and Billy have somehow begun to adjust in the new setup. Although it is not easy, considering the time difference and their hectic schedules, both of them exert effort to take care of their relationship while they are working hard to succeed in their respective careers. “Billy and I are okay. Yes, it’s hard to be away from each other but we make sure that we keep in touch everyday either through phone calls or Skype,” she said.

2/26/12

Russell Brand Dating Several Women Since Divorce

           And in terms of women, Russell is said to be "playing the field." He has been dating several women and he has been spotted with both a blonde woman and a brunette. The source explains to US Weekly that he never mentions Katy, which contradicts other reports that he was smack talking her to anyone who would listen. If he is trying to move on, it is a good thing that he is seeing other women and seeing what else is out there. Although he hasn't been divorced for long, the marriage to Katy could have ended on an emotional level months before the divorce papers were filed, meaning there is a chance that both of them had moved on well before the public knew about their issues.
            The divorce of Russell Brand and Katy Perry shocked the entertainment industry, as the couple seemed happier than ever. In fact, no one even questioned why Russell was in London over the holidays, while Katy was spotted swimming on a beach in Hawaii. It wasn't until the papers were filed that the public started asking 'what went wrong.' But both Perry and Brand seemed to be eager to divorce, rushing the process so much that it was over within 2 months of the original filing date. And both have been looking to find someone new! While Katy Perry  has been asking friends to set her up on a date, Russell Brand has been "finding himself again," a source close to him shares with US Weekly. "He got a tattoo that reminds him to be truthful at all times." And he has been taking time for himself, going to yoga to calm his mind and taking care of his body.

Extreme internet dating


Internet dating has become an entirely acceptable way to find a partner. But there is nothing like meeting someone in person to see if you have chemistry.

So one imaginative 35-year-old is combining the two - by making a Youtube video inviting women to come and meet him on February 29 in Spitalfields Market in East London.
Andrew (who has wisely withheld his surname) doesn't do things by halves.

As well as making a carefully edited video with more than 25 outfit changes, he has created a website, and set up a twitter feed, so that he can keep ladies interested by divulging new facts about himself every day.

Looking for love: Andrew (who has wisely withheld his surname) doesn't do things by halves. He has made a video and put it on his website www.andrew29th.com

Reese Witherspoon would use dating sites to her advantage


Reese Witherspoon would use dating sites to her advantage



The 35-year-old star, who married second husband Jim Toth last year, last year said that having easy access to social media had its benefit as well as its share of problems. “It’s a benefit and a curse having social media at your fingertips, where you can investigate the people you’re dating,” Contactmusic quoted her as telling The Independent. “I had somebody go into my computer without asking me and look at all my photos,” she said. ‘I thought that was really uncool. And he deleted some of it! I was like, ‘What?’ I didn’t like that,” she added.